44. It is often said that for a marriage to work, husband and wife must share more in common than mere species membership. Now, if you and I share the same environment day in, day out, it helps tremendously if in our spontaneous behavior we think and act alike. Because the truth of the matter is this: marriage is hard enough as it is, and seldom fares well when through lack of spontaneity from the domestic level on up, every little thought and deed needs to be explained and accounted for. That is a dreadful burden! Spontaneously from the bottom-up; or – bottoms-up!